Posts Tagged dove commercial

What do KIDS really see about beauty?

This video is so powerful, and unfortunately so accurate about the media’s impact on kids today. I think it is easy to believe that kids are sheltered from these sort of images, and that they are only exposed to child-oriented television, such as Sesame Street, Barney, Hannah Montana, and the like. And let’s not forget the images they may come across on the internet!

We can point our fingers at whoever we would like to blame for this problem: the media, the parents, the schools, etc. But I strongly believe that one of the major things that must take place in society today is that children must be taught self-esteem (mostly by their parents, family members, and even schoolteachers), and must be taught to be strong in their own skin. They should have people around them daily that have strong self-esteem, so they know what it means to feel confident about themselves and feel great despite the images that surround them on magazine covers, television and the internet. 

The media has gotten progressively worse with promoting images of what it means to be beautiful, sending conflicting and damaging messages to young women everywhere. I think it is time that we take a stand against it – person by person, thought by thought, scale by scale. And the next time someone asks you, “are my thighs too big?” or “do I look fat?”, you should respond, “Does it matter?” or “You look great just the way you are!” And you would not be lying – you would be telling the truth. 

Leave a Comment

Is it really that surprising that society’s perception of real beauty is distorted?


This video says a million words within a few moments of watching a model go through the process of beautification for the purposes of societal gratification and marketing. I think the point of this video is very clear: We should not be drawn into images on television and magazines and attempt to fit a mold that not even the models or actresses can fit without the rigors of Hollywood beautification and re-touching computer technology. One of the first steps in embracing and owning your own beauty is to be able to look at those images perpetuated daily and still feel confident and amazing about yourself. That you are the ideal for you – and that’s all that matters.

You can be inspired by the images out there – but do not conform to them. Make them conform to you! 

Comments (1)